Taken for granted by an individual
“Lines make relations better”
Problems. Issues. Relationships. Ohhhh! tired of these words. Let me help you.
Actually the problem is not a problem if it’s a problem between two or more unknowns, but becomes one if it is between two or more knowns. If it is a problem between two unknowns, I say “It’s not a big deal” but if it’s between two known people, I say “It definitely is a problem”, but you guys must know something, “why would anyone fear about a problem if it is between dear ones”. Oh! common, it can be easily solved. But the tricky part is, it must not be left unsolved. Better solve it between dears, dears.
The problem arises with everyone. It becomes a “must be solved” between dear ones. But before going into solvation, let us find why one such thing happens. Well, there are huge number of ways where relations get bad. I cannot pin point each and every one because if I do, I may end up buying the whole google server for myself to discuss the entire earth’s problem, hhaa! that was a bad joke. Sorry.
The solution which anyone would suggest is,
1. Try to understand each other,
2. Think in his/her point of view,
3. Listen and talk, 4. And etc.,
Well, as I already said, I am definitely not going to talk about any particular issue. I want to share something which I discovered which when known to you people may not handle problems the usual way you handle it. Sorry for the big build up. I think I will get as many dislikes as possible for this build ups. Okay! Here it is, the solution is very simple “Don’t take anyone for anything for granted”. That’s yet, that’s all I wanted to say.
If asked to elaborate, I can, but only if you accept that any problem is really a problem if it is between dear ones. I would say just blew others in the wind.
Coming to the one line advice part,
We meet people, we like them, they like us, we live with them, they live with us, we love them unconditionally, they love us the same way. If all the above happens then definitely there is part of taking each other for granted. The interesting thing about us, humans is, even if two people love each other unconditionally, it is not necessary that love at both ends are handled in same manner. If we accept that all are made to love each other we must also accept that, at the end each one is an individual and that individual sees things (love, friendship, etc.,) in the perspective of his born and brought up circumstances. So even if one loves a person more than anyone could love, that one must learn and practice not to take the other one for granted.
So even to your dear ones try to maintain your dignity, don’t just fall for their love wholly. Always remember that you are an individual, and that you are born alone and you will go alone. Love and affection from close ones are just driving factor for your life to make it a neat and wonderful journey.
Some may think, if not dear ones then who else would we take for granted. What I say here is, “why do you want to do that for your loved ones”. The most affectionate one to any species would be his/her/its mother. But we even shout at our mother if she restricts us doing things we love. If this is the case for our mother then what else relation would digest such a thing. So Please Don’t dare to take advantage of anyone, especially loved ones.
To explain this simply, by loving each other unconditionally, world would have been a far better place if Adam and Eve had drawn a thin line between them. So guys love everyone after drawing an imaginary line in between. Sometimes we need to consume bitter medicines to take care of our health. In the same way try to maintain that line to make your relationship smooth and long lasting.
The longer you maintain your lines, the longer your relation is.
Problems. Issues. Relationships. Ohhhh! tired of these words. Let me help you.
Actually the problem is not a problem if it’s a problem between two or more unknowns, but becomes one if it is between two or more knowns. If it is a problem between two unknowns, I say “It’s not a big deal” but if it’s between two known people, I say “It definitely is a problem”, but you guys must know something, “why would anyone fear about a problem if it is between dear ones”. Oh! common, it can be easily solved. But the tricky part is, it must not be left unsolved. Better solve it between dears, dears.
The problem arises with everyone. It becomes a “must be solved” between dear ones. But before going into solvation, let us find why one such thing happens. Well, there are huge number of ways where relations get bad. I cannot pin point each and every one because if I do, I may end up buying the whole google server for myself to discuss the entire earth’s problem, hhaa! that was a bad joke. Sorry.
The solution which anyone would suggest is,
1. Try to understand each other,
2. Think in his/her point of view,
3. Listen and talk, 4. And etc.,
Well, as I already said, I am definitely not going to talk about any particular issue. I want to share something which I discovered which when known to you people may not handle problems the usual way you handle it. Sorry for the big build up. I think I will get as many dislikes as possible for this build ups. Okay! Here it is, the solution is very simple “Don’t take anyone for anything for granted”. That’s yet, that’s all I wanted to say.
If asked to elaborate, I can, but only if you accept that any problem is really a problem if it is between dear ones. I would say just blew others in the wind.
Coming to the one line advice part,
We meet people, we like them, they like us, we live with them, they live with us, we love them unconditionally, they love us the same way. If all the above happens then definitely there is part of taking each other for granted. The interesting thing about us, humans is, even if two people love each other unconditionally, it is not necessary that love at both ends are handled in same manner. If we accept that all are made to love each other we must also accept that, at the end each one is an individual and that individual sees things (love, friendship, etc.,) in the perspective of his born and brought up circumstances. So even if one loves a person more than anyone could love, that one must learn and practice not to take the other one for granted.
So even to your dear ones try to maintain your dignity, don’t just fall for their love wholly. Always remember that you are an individual, and that you are born alone and you will go alone. Love and affection from close ones are just driving factor for your life to make it a neat and wonderful journey.
Some may think, if not dear ones then who else would we take for granted. What I say here is, “why do you want to do that for your loved ones”. The most affectionate one to any species would be his/her/its mother. But we even shout at our mother if she restricts us doing things we love. If this is the case for our mother then what else relation would digest such a thing. So Please Don’t dare to take advantage of anyone, especially loved ones.
To explain this simply, by loving each other unconditionally, world would have been a far better place if Adam and Eve had drawn a thin line between them. So guys love everyone after drawing an imaginary line in between. Sometimes we need to consume bitter medicines to take care of our health. In the same way try to maintain that line to make your relationship smooth and long lasting.
The longer you maintain your lines, the longer your relation is.
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